Why I Train People The Way I Do
4 min read — Hidayatulla Yusufi
I have been working out on and off since I was 21. The part that made this a career was not a competition or a photo. It was the pattern I noticed in the off seasons.
Every time I stopped working out I would feel groggy. I would get mentally fat and I would just have a whole bunch of brain fog. And every time I started back up again the brain fog would go away, the energy would come back, and I would feel like a brand new person.
That cycle repeated enough times that I stopped treating it as a coincidence. Training was not about how I looked. It was the switch that turned my head back on.
Posting workouts, and the messages that followed
I started posting workout videos on my social media page, mostly for myself, as a way to stay accountable. Then people started messaging me: you are keeping me motivated to go to the gym.
That did something. It is one thing to fix your own week. It is another to find out your week is pulling somebody else's along with it. That is what made me want to continue this as a career.
Years of training friends, which is the honest way to learn
I have been training my friends on and off for years, and friends do not let you run a template. They have different goals, different schedules and no patience for something that does not fit them.
So it depends on what their needs are. If someone wants to get into bodybuilding, I coach bodybuilding. If someone wants to lose weight, I focus on the cardio and the diet side. That is what helps me coach: starting from what the person in front of me actually wants, not what I happen to be training for.
I am nerdy in general
I am nerdy in general, so I like to get to the root of things. That helps me train other people better and it helps me understand working out myself. I am not just doing random exercises. I want to know the best workouts according to my body type, and then according to yours.
In practice that means I ask more questions than most trainers before I write anything down. Your history, your joints, your schedule, how much sleep you are really getting. The program that fits those answers beats the better looking program that does not.
Levels, not overhauls
I think about it the way I think about progression in a game. You are on a level. The job is not to leap to the final boss, it is to clear the level you are on and unlock the next one. Milestones are unlocks: first full push-up, first week of three sessions kept, first time a weight that scared you feels routine.
A bad week is a respawn, not a failure. You restart at the checkpoint you earned. Nobody loses their progress for missing a Tuesday.
What that means for you
Young guys mostly want to get big and want to try everything. Older clients and people my age want to be healthy, so I give them diet advice, I give them workout advice, and I tell them how long they should be working out so it does not hurt them at all.
Both of those are valid goals. What they share is a structure underneath. If you want yours built, the services page explains how I work online and in person, the progressive overload post explains the engine behind it, and the contact form reaches me directly.